by Ron Goldenberg
Let’s get one thing out of the way: mistakes are part of the deal. In fact, if you’re not making mistakes, you’re probably not pushing yourself enough.
Every rehearsal has them—missed entrances, cracked notes, wrong rhythms. It happens to beginners, and it happens to experienced players too. The difference is how you respond to them.
In a community band, mistakes aren’t failures. They’re signals. They tell you where to focus, what needs a bit more attention, and where the group needs to tighten up. More importantly, they remind us that we’re all human - and that music is a process, not a finished product.
Some of the best moments in rehearsal come right after something goes wrong. A section resets, everyone listens a little more closely, and suddenly the next attempt clicks. That progress - that small improvement - is where the real satisfaction lives.
There’s also something bonding about shared imperfection. When a whole section comes in a bar early and then laughs about it, it breaks tension. It makes the experience lighter, more enjoyable.
And over time, those “mistakes” become fewer and farther between—not because you avoided them, but because you worked through them.
So don’t fear the wrong notes.
Play through them. Learn from them. And keep going.
That’s how great music happens.
